Ian Lewis replied 11th Jun '15:
Always seeing - because you believe in - the total possibility in people. Seeing everyone as you want to see them as well as how they wish themselves to be seen. It is the relentless seeing of the possibility in people that keeps them and you open to possibilities - gaining skills, understandings, knowledge, creativity...and success, both theirs and yours.
Esteem is the greatest motivator. The higher the esteem the greater the character, personaility, persistence, resiliance, initiative, crerativity, courage, confidence, self-leadership...and learning potential.
Seeing means seeing - treat tham as you wish they were and they will be. And, old but gold, always ensure opportunities which challenge, make a meaningful difference and provide self-improvement experiences.
You should find this all builds your leadership and following.